While it is true that anyone can look for true love, what is also true is that in order to find it, you first have to be looking in the right place. Experience counts for a lot and I believe that HEAVENLY HEARTS© offers just that. It's something that neither Lyudmyla nor I was afforded at the beginning of our respective search by the companies that we both came in contact with. However, experience, guidance and support is something that I, my wife and our professional associates are able to offer those men and women who are now standing where we both once was stood - at the start of an new, interesting, exciting and ultimately rewarding journey.
Told by Malcolm in his own words...
There is no-one who knows better about painting a picture than the artist himself.
There is no-one who knows better about climbing a mountain than the mountain-climber himself.
There is no-one who knows better about running and winning a race than the athlete himself.
There is no-one who knows better about falling in love with a woman from Eastern Europe - and marrying her - than the man who became her husband. Well, I am happy to say that I am such a man.
 | Malcolm & Lyudmyla in the Crimea,
Ukraine (2001) |
My name is Malcolm and I am an Australian citizen by birth. I am now very happily married to a beautiful, kind, loving and faithful woman from the Ukraine. I am indeed a very, very lucky man to have met my darling wife, Lyudmyla. Our story, I believe, is a testament to the fact that true love is real and can be obtained by anyone, anywhere.
Our story is very much a story of dedication, devotion, compatibility and commitment. Without these, I wouldn't be what I am today - a man with a beautiful and loving wife, a new and wonderful life, and the opportunity to live and enjoy it day to day.
For those men whose deepest wish is enjoy a wonderful life by finding the best and most compatible woman to marry, knowing where to look is not always easy. However, the place I would definitely look FIRST if I were single man (not that I'd ever want to be again) and looking for a wonderful wife, would definitely be Eastern Europe. NO DOUBT ABOUT IT!
It has been my experience that the women from Eastern Europe are, above all else, kind, loving, faithful, honest, hard-working and BEAUTIFUL! They have so many wonderful qualities that it is not hard to see why more and more men from differing nations are starting to look towards Eastern Europe for the chance of finding a truly wonderful woman to be their wife and lifelong partner.
For those who may be unsure, Eastern Europe primarily embraces such countries as Ukraine, Russia, Belarus, Kazakstan, Estonia, Latvia and others.
All my life I had wanted to find a wonderful woman with whom I could fall in love and marry. I had looked and looked in my own country, Australia, for an Australian woman with whom I was compatible, but no matter where I looked or with whom I spoke, I just couldn't find the woman of my dreams. Now, in hindsight, I realize that I would never have met her because my dream wife wasn't to be found there. What I am thoroughly convinced of, knowing what I now know, is that Eastern Europe is where I should have commenced my search, years before. But, as old the adage goes, 'better late than never'.
 | Malcolm & Lyudmyla at 'Old Sydney Town',
Sydney, Australia (2002) |
The fulfilment I have now found in my life started long before I sent my first letter of introduction. I was 41 years old when I wrote that first, letter of introduction to my darling, Lyudmyla and 42 when I married her. Lyudmyla is approximately 10 years younger than I. We are so compatible and get on so well together, it is as if we were made for each other. I am so happy now. My life has indeed changed - and for the better. Before I met Lyudmyla, however, I was a very lonely and unhappy man. I had never been married before and I can now honestly say that Lyudmyla is, and has been, my one true love.
I suppose I hadn't realized just how lonely and unhappy I really was up to this point. It wasn't until after the death of a close family member, and a brief holiday trip I went on to the U.S., that I saw for the first time the extent of my loneliness. Everywhere about me there were people enjoying the company of others, and there I was alone, having no-one to share life's experiences with.
Many years before my U.S. trip I remember seeing a television documentary on women from Eastern Europe and just how wonderful they are. The thought of these women stayed with me because upon my return to Australia, the notion of turning my attention towards Eastern Europe was all that I could think of. I had looked in the country of my birth, but to no avail. Okay, enough was enough. So I took the first step towards personal fulfilment and true happiness - I looked towards greener pastures and away from a barren vista.
PLEASE NOTE: There is a lot of bad press circulating by ill-informed people saying that Eastern European women are money-hungry gold-diggers who want to use a man - WRONG. Of course there is always one or two rotten apples in every barrel. This can be said of people from any country. Let me firmly stress that in my opinion, having had MUCH to do with people from both Ukraine and Russia, that most women from Eastern Europe are EXCEEDINGLY trustworthy and open and honest about life. Fundamentally, they want what any ordinary women wants. That is a loving husband, a comfortable home and a happy life. I think most men yearn for a wonderful wife with whom to share their lives. I know I did.
 | Malcolm & Lyudmyla at 'Jenolan Caves',
N.S.W, Australia (2002) |
At our wedding, a good friend of ours, who it turns out was our translator all through our courtship, told me of an old Russian anecdote. Basically the anecdote said that originally, in the time of creation, people were paired together as a loving whole, such as in garden. On an eternal tree the fruit of their love blossomed and ripened. In due time, a passing storm ravaged the garden causing the fruit on the trees to be dismembered and split in half. The fruit was then scattered by the wind, the two perfect halves being separated. Before the fruit perished forever it was necessary to reunite the pieces, so that the unity and love that was once a whole, could be made whole again. Time passed and many of the pieces were never reunited. They withered and decayed. Some, however, found each other and became whole once more. Our translator likened Lyudmyla and I to this fruit, commenting that she had personally witnessed the two halves being reunited and become whole once more. In life there are many fundamental truths that are shrouded in mythology and make-believe. The legend of the fruit, I believe, echoes a fundamental truth, that being there IS someone out there who is perfect for you. It may not be the person next-door or down the road. A person's perfect partner could very well live on the other side of the world, as my darling Lyudmyla did. The rule of thumb is to always keep searching until that perfect partner is found. It may be a lonely journey, but the rewards at journey's end go beyond words and far into the realm of immense self-fulfilment, wondrous love and lifelong bliss.
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